05/27/2026
The Shoes in the Back of the Closet
By Sarah Poff
This afternoon at G-Ma Camp began with costumes.�Not expensive costumes. Not store-bought magic.
Just racks of old dresses, storytelling outfits, faded memories stitched into fabric… and two older elementary-aged girls ready to become whoever their imagination allowed them to be.
We had turned the shop into a little world of make-believe this summer. I had hung up a costume rack filled with dresses from my storytelling days and clothing from years long past. Around the program project tubs, I draped plastic tablecloths that looked like old stone walls, and nearby sat pewter dishes and odds and ends that have somehow survived the passing of time right along with me.
The girls slipped into the dresses with the seriousness only children can give to play.�And then suddenly they stopped.�“G-Ma… how about dress shoes?”
Oh my.�So we headed to the little room with what I call the Family Ladies’ Legacy cabinet.�Every family probably has one, even if it isn’t officially called that.�A place where women quietly leave behind pieces of themselves.�Not always jewelry or fine china.�Sometimes it’s aprons.�Handbags.�Scarves.�Buttons in old jars.�A Sunday hat.�Or a pair of shoes tucked in the back corner of a closet.
I pointed the girls toward two pairs of high heels on top of the cabinet.
One pair was mine — bright red pointed-toe shoes from the mid-1980s, back before their mother was even born. I smiled seeing them again because Lord knows I was never very good in high heels. I may have looked decent standing still, but walking in them was another story entirely.
The other pair belonged to their great-grandmother Maxine.
Now Maxine… she was elegant.
She understood how to put herself together in a way some women simply know instinctively. Her golden-brown heels still carried that quiet dignity about them, even all these years later.
The girls carefully slipped their feet into those shoes.
One pair barely fit the older granddaughter.�The other pair was long; however, the younger granddaughter made them work. She is easygoing in that way.
And then they waddled back out to the shop in white and gray socks, teetering and giggling, holding onto chairs and tables as if they had suddenly stepped into womanhood itself.
And for just a moment… time folded.
There stood my granddaughters in the shoes of women who came before them.
Women they never fully knew.
Women who cooked meals, raised babies, worried over bills, buried loved ones, taught school, ironed dresses, put on lipstick, laughed with girlfriends, cried quietly at night, and somehow kept moving forward through all the ordinary and difficult days of life.
Those shoes once walked hospital hallways, grocery aisles, church foyers, school programs, and family gatherings.
They walked through decades that are now only photographs and stories.
And there they were again…
walking across my shop floor in the summer of 2026.
The older granddaughter — now as tall as me — slipped beautifully into my old high school and college clothes. The younger one worked hard making adaptations, pinning and tugging and pretending. She is adaptable when presented with a problem.
And naturally… I was assigned the role of peasant woman.
Though I did negotiate for the cushy chair.
Hours later the dresses were draped across chairs, the shoes kicked aside, and the girls went home tired and happy.
Now the house is quiet.
The costumes are hanging still once more.�The pewter dishes sit untouched.�And those old high heels are back on the top of the cabinet.
They will probably never again walk across a dance floor or down a church aisle.
But today they walked again.
Not just across the floor…
but across generations.
And tonight I find myself wondering how many women have quietly stored away a piece of their past in the back of our closets.
How many dresses still hold laughter in their seams.�How many pairs of shoes still remember the shape of the feet that wore them.�How many little girls are searching through those closets, trying on not just clothing… but identity.
Trying to understand what it means to someday become a woman.
Perhaps that is why afternoons like this matter so much.
Because somewhere between the costumes and the high heels, the giggling and the pretending, girls begin gathering pieces of the women they may someday become.
And maybe the greatest inheritance we leave behind is not the jewelry or the furniture or even the family photographs.
Maybe it is simply this:�That the women who come after us will know they belong to something larger than themselves.�A long line of women who loved deeply, sacrificed quietly, carried on bravely…�…and left enough of themselves behind that future girls could step into their shoes and keep walking forward.
The shoes carried decades of memories.�The white and gray socks reminded me that childhood was still holding on.