05/25/2026
Memorial Day-Remembering the Wall that Heals 10 years later
Memorial Day, observed on the last Monday of May, honors the men and women who died while serving in the U.S. military. Many Americans observe Memorial Day by visiting cemeteries or memorials, holding family gatherings, and participating in parades.
Ten years ago, Blythewood hosted the Wall that Heals for 5 days, so that citizens could bring their families to explain what we mean by Memorial Day.
The Wall That Heals Published May 2016 Country Chronicle Robert White
It has been an emotional weekend for Blythewood, that was a year in the making. The town experienced, in a more personal and immediate way, the true cost of freedom that we enjoy every day. Blythewood hosted the Wall that Heals for 5 days, so that citizens could bring their families to explain what we mean by Memorial Day.
Visitors flocked to see the replica of the Vietnam Memorial wall and read the names of the 58,000 soldiers, a chance that many would not have if the wall had not traveled to them. I witnessed Veterans taking pictures of names of friends that did not come home. People would stop at the mobile education center and stand completely still while reading about a soldier who died 50 years ago. A soldier who answered the call and for a moment existed once more in the eyes of a witness to his sacrifice.
The Vietnam war was an unpopular war that for years many people did not want to talk about, even now with most soldiers of that era in their 60’s and 70’s they still suffer from their experiences, 50 years later. The Wall that Heals and the people that travel and tell the stories in our memorial services this weekend, had a message that was repeated over and over again. “Let’s talk about it!”
During the Memorial service, in Doko Manor, a former Airborne Ranger, now in a wheelchair came to the podium during the service in tears, just to thank the man who saved his life. Retired Marine and Blythewood Resident, Fritz Jolly, was interviewed for a documentary about his experiences in Vietnam and wanted people to know, “For a long time [soldiers] wouldn’t even admit they went to Vietnam, now they are talking about it.” His voice, and the presence of the Wall that Heals inspired 26 others to come forward and share their experiences with the documentary crew.
There are many people to thank for bringing the wall to Blythewood; The Mayor, and town council, and all the volunteers who built, and staffed the Wall. We would be remiss however if we did not single out Hazel Kelly, town administrative assistant, for her tireless work in organizing and scheduling the volunteers, and Councilman Eddie Baughman who pushed, for over a year, to bring the wall to Blythewood. The experience truly helped bring so many people closer together.
Bobby Farmer, Chaplin of the National Combat Veterans Motorcycle Association, and the Founder of Project Josiah, said it best in his invocation to the Memorial Day service. “Heavenly father help us to remember all those that have fallen in battle, that were our friends, our families, our brothers, our sisters. As we remember their ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today and remember the families and the loved ones of the fallen.”